The author reflects on their 31st birthday and the challenges they have faced in the past two years, including the passing of their father and struggles with love. They draw parallels to the song 'Wake Me Up When September Ends' and the movie 'La La Land', and contemplate the importance of defining their own life amidst changing circumstances.

The author reflects on their 31st birthday and the challenges they have faced in the past two years, including the passing of their father and struggles with love. They draw parallels to the song 'Wake Me Up When September Ends' and the movie 'La La Land', and contemplate the importance of defining one's own life amidst changing circumstances.